Childhood trauma and living in the closet for years taught you to mask and pretend everything is "fine."

You rehearse conversations before they happen 

You read a room in half a second.

You're still cringing about something you said in the 3rd grade.

You spiral and beat yourself for days when you say the wrong thing.

You came out of the closet and moved into a smaller box of rules that were never meant for you

People-pleasing, masking, playing by the rules; it kept you safe once; now, it's sabotaging your life. On the outside you have it all together, while inside there's a secret boxing match nobody knows about.

That's not a personality. That's a survival pattern. 

It’s time to heal at the root, not just manage symptoms

So you're not just out of the closet, you're actually free in your own life. 

Life is hard, but finding the right therapist doesn’t have to be

No traditional blank slate, silent nodding, and "How does that make you feel?" therapy energy here. I will talk back, challenge you, and give you advice (because why the hell would you pay me if I wasn't going to give you professional advice?)

WHO I WORK WITH:

Queers, creatives, weirdos, rebels & high achievers. Poly/ENM, first-gen, neurospicy, trauma survivors who've been everyone's emotional support human since childhood. 

Fellow Queerdos, this space was built for you. 

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